Wednesday, 24 April 2013 12
It seems that dating Nigerian men has quickly become a trend in East Africa. The ‘show me your Oga I show you mine’ syndrome has rapidly spread and these men have even replaced the white man preference. But what many women don’t know is that they will wine, dine and fuck you but never marry you.
I spent a few weeks in Nigeria early this year and the picture I got from them- people behave differently when in their original environment- was rather different. Nigerians tend to avoid contact with foreigners, especially their women. It’s only ashawos that date white men or men from other cultures- did I say date? Sorry, sell is more like it. Your average girl next door Nigerian woman will not even look at foreigner so this creates an unfair advantage for the Nigerian man. However this is not why they will not marry you. The reasons are:
Nigerians are a very cultural lot. Despite travelling, exposure to other cultures, copious naira they still maintain their culture- look how they dress. So a mother would not want a foreigner for a daughter-in-law to bring ‘conflict’ into their culture. Especially from a culture that is so influenced by the West that they cannot kneel down in front of their husband’s mother or cook traditional foods.
Nigerian Women Traits
Nigerian women love their men and put up with so much shit from them. A man will meet you, move you to America then leave you there to give birth as he stays in Nigeria having fun with other women. And the women are okay with this. Which East African woman can agree to be left in a foreign country to just produce children so they can get foreign passports? The rationale of the women is that “Well, as long as he is providing for my needs I don’t care what he does!” Even if he runs around with other women she has her car, her house and is living abroad.
Aggressive East African Women
Nigerian women are very aggressive and loud but they can never raise their voice or fists to a Nigerian man. The East African women are the opposite- they abuse and can sometimes turn violent (Kenyan women especially because Ugandan women are ladies.) So the Nigerian men fear them and can’t even contemplate marrying such a person. Nigerian women release their aggression on other women not their men…so they guy knows he can fuck around but it’s his girlfriend who shall get slapped.
East African women are Easy Quick Lays. All a Nigerian has to do is drive them in his big car…knickers drop. Take them to a fancy restaurant…knickers drop. Buy them champagne…knickers drop. Buy them an iPhone…knickers drop. Nigerian women are tougher to bed thus a greater challenge and greater respect. To bed a Naija woman you buy her a car…buy her a house or even buy her a jet. Some men take a chick to Europe for a week and still sleep in separate rooms and even when they return back to Nigeria the guy gets nothing until he proposes. An East African would drop her knickers at the idea even before the purchase of air tickets or visa application even.
So, as he takes you out…and you drop your knickers. As he buys you champagne…and you drop your knickers…as he buys you phones…and you drop your knickers- just know he shall never marry. He will leave your ass and go marry a Nigerian woman. The only ring you’ll ever get from a Naija man is a call saying he never wants to see you again.